Never before have women held so much power to shape the future.
With so many pressing global issues happening in the world right now, do you feel called to make a bigger difference, and leave a legacy that impacts generations to come?
Here’s the thing:
You can't do it alone, and you can’t do it running on fumes.
The Dalai Lama says, “the world will be saved by the Western woman.”
The time is NOW for you to come together in sisterhood with other women, release your "good woman" conditioning, and master living life in a whole new way -- from your DESIRE!
Will you answer the call, and step forward into the larger life that’s calling to you?
Never before have women held so much power to shape the future.
With so many pressing global issues happening in the world right now, do you feel called to make a bigger difference, and leave a legacy that impacts generations to come?
Here’s the thing:
You can't do it alone, and you can’t do it running on fumes.
The Dalai Lama says, “the world will be saved by the Western woman.”
The time is NOW for you to come together in sisterhood with other women, release your "good woman" conditioning, and master living life in a whole new way -- from your DESIRE!
Will you answer the call, and step forward into the larger life that’s calling to you?
Do you struggle with any of the following?
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Body Shame:
Do you experience paralyzing fear and insecurity about the way your body looks?
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Fear of Rejection:
Do you fear showing others how you feel or what you want because you fear being turned down? Do you feel awkward or self-conscious around expressing your sensual side for fear of others not liking it?
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Control:
Do you find yourself wanting to fix, manage, correct, handle things so they go your way? So you don’t fail? Do you worry if you’re not controlling things, they’ll fall apart?
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Performance Anxiety:
Do you fear that you don’t know what you’re doing in the bedroom? Do you have anxiety about “looking awkward” that kills your enjoyment of intimacy and pleasure?
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Loose Boundaries:
Do you struggle to set clear boundaries and say “no” when you mean no, especially in sexual situations?
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Lack of Sexual Appetite:
Do you frequently feel turned off, like you’re in “man mode,” and struggle to drop into your sexual desires?
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Compare & Despair:
Are you caught in the trap of comparing yourself to others and never feeling good enough? Do you constantly question yourself and your decisions?
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Fear and Indecision:
Do you struggle with knowing what you want (in bed and in life), and how to clearly communicate it, so your needs can be met by a partner?
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Self Sabotage:
Are you so afraid of being “too much” that you hold yourself back from asking for what you really want?
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Sensual Frustration:
Do you know more pleasure is possible, but struggle to fully let go? Do you desire wall-bending, earth-shattering sex, but are frequently disappointed (or don’t know how to get there)? Do you fear that your emotional and sexual needs will never be met?
Do you struggle with any of the following?
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Body Shame:
Do you experience paralyzing fear and insecurity about the way your body looks?
-
Fear of Rejection:
Do you fear showing others how you feel or what you want because you fear being turned down? Do you feel awkward or self-conscious around expressing your sensual side for fear of others not liking it?
-
Control:
Do you find yourself wanting to fix, manage, correct, handle things so they go your way? So you don’t fail? Do you worry if you’re not controlling things, they’ll fall apart?
-
Performance Anxiety:
Do you fear that you don’t know what you’re doing in the bedroom? Do you have anxiety about “looking awkward” that kills your enjoyment of intimacy and pleasure?
-
Loose Boundaries:
Do you struggle to set clear boundaries and say “no” when you mean no, especially in sexual situations?
-
Lack of Sexual Appetite:
Do you frequently feel turned off, like you’re in “man mode,” and struggle to drop into your sexual desires?
-
Compare & Despair:
Are you caught in the trap of comparing yourself to others and never feeling good enough? Do you constantly question yourself and your decisions?
-
Fear and Indecision:
Do you struggle with knowing what you want (in bed and in life), and how to clearly communicate it, so your needs can be met by a partner?
-
Self Sabotage:
Are you so afraid of being “too much” that you hold yourself back from asking for what you really want?
-
Sensual Frustration:
Do you know more pleasure is possible, but struggle to fully let go? Do you desire wall-bending, earth-shattering sex, but are frequently disappointed (or don’t know how to get there)? Do you fear that your emotional and sexual needs will never be met?
Apply for Pleasure Mastery
Aimee & Ellie have combined their years of experience and expertise, and created Pleasure Mastery: an immersive 4-month mentorship program for women.
This is a DEEP DIVE experience with these two expert coaches - where you will MASTER your sex, relationships and money - in an immersive group of women who are committed to their own feminine growth journeys.
Apply for Pleasure Mastery
Aimee & Ellie have combined their years of experience and expertise, and created Pleasure Mastery: an immersive 4-month mentorship program for women.
This is a DEEP DIVE experience with these two expert coaches - where you will MASTER your sex, relationships and money - in an immersive group of women who are committed to their own feminine growth journeys.
Over 4 months, we’ll take a deep dive to...
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Heal and free you from emotional wounds of the past
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Turn on your inner magnet, so you attract the attention, love, sex, and money you desire
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Fundamentally shift your views and perspectives around men and sex (you won’t even recognize yourself!)
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Create massive up-levels in your growth, healing and transformation
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Forge lifelong sisterhood connections
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Experience more ease & fun in your sex life, dating and relationships
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Discover what you want and gain confidence in asking for and receiving your desires
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Become the most confident, abundant, sexy YOU
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Strengthen your “trust muscle” and gain greater resiliency (and the ability to truly thrive!) through these uncertain times
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Experience pleasure and sensation like NEVER before
Over 4 months, we’ll take a deep dive to...
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Heal and free you from emotional wounds of the past
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Turn on your inner magnet, so you attract the attention, love, sex, and money you desire
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Fundamentally shift your views and perspectives around men and sex (you won’t even recognize yourself!)
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Create massive up-levels in your growth, healing and transformation
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Forge lifelong sisterhood connections
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Experience more ease & fun in your sex life, dating and relationships
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Discover what you want and gain confidence in asking for and receiving your desires
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Become the most confident, abundant, sexy YOU
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Strengthen your “trust muscle” and gain greater resiliency (and the ability to truly thrive!) through these uncertain times
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Experience pleasure and sensation like NEVER before
This program will lead to better:
SELF LOVE
"I just find myself so much more self-assured and willing to sit in the discomfort and feel every ounce of it. I can be so much more raw and emotionally vulnerable with people, and can recognize the power of the way I interact with those around me - both men and women - and can see the ripple effect it has on how they interact and view the world as well."
- Jamie
RELATIONSHIPS
"I see how my doing this work is impacting generations. I just went home for my 11 days with my family and still was able to make myself a priority. It was one of the most pleasurable trips home in 7 years. We laughed and we cooked, had amazing connection. I have never felt so ok with myself. Especially back home."
- Morgan
INTIMACY & SEX
"My relationship has been more sexy, exciting, deep, spiritual and connected than it has EVER been. Owning my desires has permitted me to have the most incredible sexual experiences with a partner that I had been very unsatisfied with before this work. It’s like I am falling in love all over again in my relationship of three years."
- Chloe
SISTERHOOD
"I never knew this level of sisterhood was even possible. I used to have this belief that I couldn’t have close friends because everyone has their own issues they’re dealing with. How limiting! Because of Pleasure Mastery, I now feel so safe, loved and supported in sisterhood, and I will continue to prioritize it in this community, and beyond!"
- Althea
This program will lead to better:
SELF LOVE
"I just find myself so much more self-assured and willing to sit in the discomfort and feel every ounce of it. I can be so much more raw and emotionally vulnerable with people, and can recognize the power of the way I interact with those around me - both men and women - and can see the ripple effect it has on how they interact and view the world as well."
- Jamie
RELATIONSHIPS
"I see how my doing this work is impacting generations. I just went home for my 11 days with my family and still was able to make myself a priority. It was one of the most pleasurable trips home in 7 years. We laughed and we cooked, had amazing connection. I have never felt so ok with myself. Especially back home."
- Morgan
INTIMACY & SEX
"My relationship has been more sexy, exciting, deep, spiritual and connected than it has EVER been. Owning my desires has permitted me to have the most incredible sexual experiences with a partner that I had been very unsatisfied with before this work. It’s like I am falling in love all over again in my relationship of three years."
- Chloe
SISTERHOOD
"I never knew this level of sisterhood was even possible. I used to have this belief that I couldn’t have close friends because everyone has their own issues they’re dealing with. How limiting! Because of Pleasure Mastery, I now feel so safe, loved and supported in sisterhood, and I will continue to prioritize it in this community, and beyond!"
- Althea
Topics You Will Master and Own
Receiving
Conscious Relationships
Feminine Power
Pleasure
Manifesting Your Desires
Understanding Men & the Masculine
Sex
Erotic Secrets
Sisterhood
Topics You Will Master and Own
Receiving
Conscious Relationships
Feminine Power
Pleasure
Manifesting Your Desires
Understanding Men & the Masculine
Sex
Erotic Secrets
Sisterhood
This program is a space where you get to:
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Release shame and trauma around intimacy, your body, sexuality, and talking about sex & intimacy
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Breakthrough your sex, love and money blocks
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Gain the ability to let in the kind of love, touch and attention you desire from men (or whoever you date)
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Master your relationship to your body -- understand your body’s natural cycles and rhythms and how to live in alignment with them
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Do less while having greater results & be more effective in your work
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Be loved and witnessed in your truest self: your emotions, feelings and thoughts will be celebrated and honored
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Learn to trust yourself and your intuition
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Be held and guided by two expert coaches over four months
Are you ready to unleash your most confident, radiant self?
This program is a space where you get to:
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Release shame and trauma around intimacy, your body, sexuality, and talking about sex & intimacy
-
Breakthrough your sex, love and money blocks
-
Gain the ability to let in the kind of love, touch and attention you desire from men (or whoever you date)
-
Master your relationship to your body -- understand your body’s natural cycles and rhythms and how to live in alignment with them
-
Do less while having greater results & be more effective in your work
-
Be loved and witnessed in your truest self: your emotions, feelings and thoughts will be celebrated and honored
-
Learn to trust yourself and your intuition
-
Be held and guided by two expert coaches over four months
Are you ready to unleash your most confident, radiant self?
Testimonials
What our graduates have to say about working with Aimee and Ellie:
"Before Pleasure Mastery, I had an independence mindset where I had to fully support myself and do everything on my own. This program has taught me how to soften and ask for help, and now I LOVE being supported by my partner so that I can spend my time focusing on things that bring me joy."
- Hazel V
"I never knew this level of sisterhood was possible. I used to have this belief that I couldn’t have close friends because everyone has their own issues they’re dealing with. How limiting! Because of Desire on Fire, I now feel so safe, loved and supported in sisterhood, and I continue to prioritize it beyond this community!"
- Althea J
"From working with Aimee & Ellie, I have found my voice!! It was silent for so long. I am able to stand up in a crowd and share my views without anxiety. And even when I feel anxious, I can stand up and share my truth anyway! I am so much more bold in taking up space as myself. I don't apologize for who I am, for being myself, for showing up authentically, for going against the norms -- especially in corporate environments!"
- Karusha M
"I relate to sex as a way to connect to my body now, rather than an act to perform. I'm more orgasmic than ever, yet I don't have a climax-oriented approach to sex. I want pleasure, connection, play, joy. Orgasms are very welcome and often present, but simply a bonus!"
- Carley W
"I never could have imagined the connection and turn-on I would have in my marriage of 14 years. Every aspect of our relationship has shifted. I enrolled in Pleasure Mastery exhausted from controlling every aspect of our household, making every decision, raising the kids and running a business, and I really wanted a drastic shift. Now I have the resources and tools to communicate in a way that my needs are met without nagging or fighting. I can be vulnerable, say everything I am feeling and share my deepest desires, and my man LOVES it."
- Prudence S
"I’ve gained a whole new level of trust in myself and my higher power. By letting go of control and trusting the universe, I am able to receive miracles in my life. By trusting myself and the role I have in co-creating my manifestations, I've taken ownership of my future. Experiencing this level of trust has unlocked my higher self and all her abilities!"
- Taylor T
"I've experienced a 180 degree shift in my relationship with men! When I started Pleasure Mastery, I was CERTAIN I didn't want a romantic relationship. I had a massive wall up in front of my tender heart, and it has been cleared away through this program. And wouldn't you know, a miracle has happened. I have met a man that feels like a truer match than any man I've ever known. We are head over heels in love with each other, and we feel like teenagers in love for the first time!"
- Aubrie W
"This work has given me permission to slow down and truly feel everything. I feel more empowered in my sexual experiences and have released so much shame around what I desire."
- Shannon R
"I love Aimee & Ellie's energy, their integrity, and their ability to be so centered in their feminine spine and magic. They command a whole room, and yet make you feel like the only person in the world in how they hold and care for every participant. I have so much respect for their wisdom, and I love that they walk the walk and do the work in their own lives. IT SHOWS!"
- Shaina L
Testimonials
What our graduates have to say about working with Aimee and Ellie:
"Before Pleasure Mastery, I had an independence mindset where I had to fully support myself and do everything on my own. This program has taught me how to soften and ask for help, and now I LOVE being supported by my partner so that I can spend my time focusing on things that bring me joy."
- Hazel V
"I never knew this level of sisterhood was possible. I used to have this belief that I couldn’t have close friends because everyone has their own issues they’re dealing with. How limiting! Because of Desire on Fire, I now feel so safe, loved and supported in sisterhood, and I continue to prioritize it beyond this community!"
- Althea J
"From working with Aimee & Ellie, I have found my voice!! It was silent for so long. I am able to stand up in a crowd and share my views without anxiety. And even when I feel anxious, I can stand up and a my truth anyway! I am so much more bold in taking up space as myself. I don't apologize for who I am, for being myself, for showing up authentically, for going against the norms -- especially in corporate environments!"
- Karusha M
"I relate to sex as a way to connect to my body now, rather than an act to perform. I'm more orgasmic than ever, yet I don't have a climax-oriented approach to sex. I want pleasure, connection, play, joy. Orgasms are very welcome and often present, but simply a bonus!"
- Carley W
"I never could have imagined the connection and turn-on I would have in my marriage of 14 years. Every aspect of our relationship has shifted. I enrolled in Pleasure Mastery exhausted from controlling every aspect of our household, making every decision, raising the kids and running a business, and I really wanted a drastic shift. Now I have the resources and tools to communicate in a way that my needs are met without nagging or fighting. I can be vulnerable, say everything I am feeling and share my deepest desires, and my man LOVES it."
- Prudence S
"I’ve gained a whole new level of trust in myself and my higher power. By letting go of control and trusting the universe, I am able to receive miracles in my life. By trusting myself and the role I have in co-creating my manifestations, I've taken ownership of my future. Experiencing this level of trust has unlocked my higher self and all her abilities!"
- Taylor T
"I've experienced a 180 degree shift in my relationship with men! When I started Pleasure Mastery, I was CERTAIN I didn't want a romantic relationship. I had a massive wall up in front of my tender heart, and it has been cleared away through this program. And wouldn't you know, a miracle has happened. I have met a man that feels like a truer match than any man I've ever known. We are head over heels in love with each other, and we feel like teenagers in love for the first time!"
- Aubrie W
"This work has given me permission to slow down and truly feel everything. I feel more empowered in my sexual experiences and have released so much shame around what I desire."
- Shannon R
"I love Aimee & Ellie's energy, their integrity, and their ability to be so centered in their feminine spine and magic. They command a whole room, and yet make you feel like the only person in the world in how they hold and care for every participant. I have so much respect for their wisdom, and I love that they walk the walk and do the work in their own lives. IT SHOWS!"
- Shaina L
About Your Hosts, Aimee & Ellie
Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are *THE* dynamic duo that are igniting a revolution of turned-on, connected, radiant women through their company, Desire on Fire.
As millennial authorities in the global-wide movement of the new feminine, Aimee and Ellie know that the path to getting over Boss Babe Burnout isn’t a threshold to be crossed over, but rather is a continuous practice — one of the deepest spiritual practices for women today. These two hold a fierce commitment to allowing their intuition and orgasmic energy to be their guides, and are a stand that any and every woman can do the same.
In the last 5 years of hosting transformational intimacy programs for women, Aimee and Ellie have hosted over 1,000 women through their annual live event, The Desire on Fire Experience, and their global community has reached over 15,000 women.
Join these trailblazing visionaries as they shatter conventional norms and revolutionize the way women experience pleasure, connection, sisterhood and fulfillment.
About Your Hosts, Aimee & Ellie
Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are *THE* dynamic duo that are igniting a revolution of turned-on, connected, radiant women through their company, Desire on Fire.
As millennial authorities in the global-wide movement of the new feminine, Aimee and Ellie know that the path to getting over Boss Babe Burnout isn’t a threshold to be crossed over, but rather is a continuous practice — one of the deepest spiritual practices for women today. These two hold a fierce commitment to allowing their intuition and orgasmic energy to be their guides, and are a stand that any and every woman can do the same.
In the last 5 years of hosting transformational intimacy programs for women, Aimee and Ellie have hosted over 1,000 women through their annual live event, The Desire on Fire Experience, and their global community has reached over 15,000 women.
Join these trailblazing visionaries as they shatter conventional norms and revolutionize the way women experience pleasure, connection, sisterhood and fulfillment.
THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU IF YOU...
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Know more is possible in your sex, friendships, and career, and you want guidance on how to get there
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Resonate hard with what Aimee and Ellie share, teach and post
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Desire a major up-level in your relationships, sex and money
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Are ready to commit and invest in yourself, get messy and have fun with a group of powerful women
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Participated in the Pleasure Revolution and/or The Desire on Fire Experience and want MORE!
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Want to change your relationship patterns and you’re ready to do deep work on yourself
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Are ready to design your life to match your deepest desires, values and priorities
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR YOU IF YOU...
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Are not ready to take responsibility for your life
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Blame men (or the people you date) for everything that doesn’t work about your love life
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Aren’t ready to invest money, time, energy and attention into your growth + healing
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Hate going out of your comfort zone
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Think you need to be fixed or rescued
THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU IF YOU...
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Know more is possible in your sex, friendships, and career, and you want guidance on how to get there
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Resonate hard with what Aimee and Ellie share, teach and post
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Desire a major up-level in your relationships, sex and money
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Are ready to commit and invest in yourself, get messy and have fun with a group of powerful women
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Participated in the Pleasure Revolution and/or The Desire on Fire Experience and want MORE!
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Want to change your relationship patterns and you’re ready to do deep work on yourself
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Are ready to design your life to match your deepest desires, values and priorities
THIS COURSE IS NOT FOR YOU IF YOU...
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Are not ready to take responsibility for your life
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Blame men (or the people you date) for everything that doesn’t work about your love life
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Aren’t ready to invest money, time, energy and attention into your growth + healing
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Hate going out of your comfort zone
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Think you need to be fixed or rescued
JOIN THE
NOVEMBER 2023 - FEBRUARY 2024
THIS PROGRAM INCLUDES:
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(1) 3-day In-Person Deep Dive Immersion
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4 Months Coaching and Holding from Aimee, Ellie and Team Desire on Fire
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(3) 2-hour Group Coaching/Teaching Calls per Month with Aimee & Ellie
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(2) 1-1 Coaching Calls and (2) Small Group Calls with a Desire on Fire Support Coach
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Private FB Group for Community Support and Connection
BONUSES:
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Guided Self-Pleasure Exploration Calls
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Sensual Movement Sessions
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Teaching Calls with Guest Experts
JOIN THE
NOVEMBER 2023 - FEBRUARY 2024
THIS PROGRAM INCLUDES:
-
(1) 3-day In-Person Deep Dive Immersion
-
4 Months Coaching and Holding from Aimee, Ellie and Team Desire on Fire
-
(3) 2-hour Group Coaching/Teaching Calls per Month with Aimee & Ellie
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(2) 1-1 Coaching Calls and (2) Small Group Calls with a Desire on Fire Support Coach
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Private FB Group for Community Support and Connection
BONUSES:
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Guided Self-Pleasure Exploration Calls
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Sensual Movement Sessions
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Teaching Calls with Guest Experts
Frequently Asked Questions
I am really busy with work, parenting, etc… will I be able to fit this in?
The program is designed to accommodate a busy schedule. Our group calls occur 3 to 4 times a month, every Wednesday from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm CT, except on Monday, November 20th from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm CT. While we encourage you to attend these calls live, we will provide recordings of each one in case you need to miss a call. We will share the dates for the 3-day in-person immersion in advance, allowing you to arrange childcare and balance work and family commitments accordingly. We are here to support you in making this program work for yourself and your life!
When and where does the course begin?
The program formally begins on November 1st. We'll have a kickoff call on October 25th! And the program ends on February 28th. All calls will be held on Zoom. All dates and logistics will be emailed to you upon registering. If you have a question about dates/logistics, please shoot us an email at connect@desireonfire.com and we'll be happy to send you the full schedule via email.
What are the details for the in-person immersion?
TBD (We will keep you posted once we finalize the immersion logistics and details.)
I'm single/dating/married... is this program for me?
Yes! Pleasure Mastery is applicable for any woman who wants to majorly uplevel her relationships, purpose and sex life. The teachings we offer will apply, no matter what your relationship status.
I really want to do this, and I have financial concerns. What do you recommend?
We totally understand. The investment in this program is meant to stretch you. If you're a hell yes and you're scared about making the investment, email us and we can set you up with a call with one of our team members: connect@desireonfire.com
I have a friend who I want to invite to do this with me! Can she join, even if she wasn't at the Experience weekend?
Yes! We’d love to welcome your friend into this life-changing program! Have her reach out to our team by emailing connect@desireonfire.com and we’ll get her registered!
What time of day are Aimee & Ellie’s group calls?
Group teaching calls led by Aimee and Ellie will be held every Wednesday from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm CT, except on Monday, November 20th, from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm CT. Embodiment calls will take place every Wednesday from 10:00 am to 11:30 am CT (unless otherwise indicated).